Each person must have their problems . That needs to be trusted , there is no one who does not have a problem . In the study of psychology , the problem ” created ” for the increase and the level of risk-taking is a way of completion.
Risk is a danger , as a result or consequence that may occur as a result of a process of ongoing or upcoming events . Sometimes there are some people who choose to escape from the problems they have. That is not a solution . Settlement or find a way out , the most appropriate attitude in the face of any problems and exams . There is a saying that can be used for reference fails one time , must be willing to try again to 1,000 times . ” Do not ever collect and carry debris that failure would only hinder us in completing any problems , ” said Anggia .
Not many of us who have a problem and chose to take the risk to get it done . The reason is quite obvious , because of fear . Afraid of taking risks – the risk of embarrassment , fatigue risk , the risk of loss , and others , especially the risk of failure .
In fact, in a bold move to take risks means we want to learn from mistakes and failures , and keep moving forward until the completion of the problem and other problems .
If fear , take risks but do it with risk management , resulting in risk-taking is not ‘ free fall . Of course , taking a risk means risk .
Risk Management is a risk management process that includes the identification , evaluation and control of risks to the problems encountered . Phase – stage is to first identify the risks that may be experienced after identifying the evaluation of each risk in terms of severity ( risk value ) and frequency . The last stage is risk control . In the stage of risk management can be divided into two namely physical controls ( risk eliminated , minimized risk ) and financial management ( risk on hold , the risk is transferred ) . Eliminate risk means eliminating all possibility of failure . Minimize the risk carried by efforts to minimize failures . Restrain themselves bear the risk means the whole or part of the risk , while the transfer / risk transfer can be done by moving the disadvantages / risks that may occur to others
The following is how to overcome the fear of failure and the courage :
1 . Consider the cost to be borne if we miss the opportunities that are in front . For example , we will not be able to overcome the financial problems that we are facing a problem when it has been disturbing for so long . Or if not taken , we will never be promoted to manager , director or other key positions .
2 . Do some research to find the good and bad sides of a chance . Ignorance is the greatest source of fear . When we do not know what we’re dealing with the consequences we face will always look larger than it actually is. Therefore grow the courage or interest to find out what we’re dealing with . Do the research . In this way we will find good and bad sides of the opportunities facing so that we can know what are the risks .
3 . Show the worst case scenario . If we pursue a dream and failed to reach poorer , how long will recover our mental life to return to normal or bold pursue other opportunities ? Generally, our ability to recover much faster than our estimates .
For example, we are a company employee , but was not happy to be there for various reasons . But to quit and find a new job or fear you will not get it if got surely will be achieved after a long time looking for it . Though often if you try , do not be so long or so new jobs will be hard to come by .
4 . Understanding the benefits of failure . There is a proverb , life is a series of experiments , the more we try the more we can achieve a good life . Every failure is an attempt to do something , a kind of experiment , as well as an opportunity to grow and develop . Even if the failure resulted in financial losses , the benefits can be converted as a teaching tool which is much more expensive than the financial loss that we can .
5 . Make alternative plans . Another way to overcome the fear of failure is to reduce the downside . Overcome the risks by making alternative plans . If the first option fails , we can maintain the status quo with a solid backup plan . Dare to fail does not mean we have to take the risk of losing it all . If we manage risk intelligently , we can take advantage of the opportunities that have a high risk while we spread the safety net just in case so we do not fall down.
6 . Take action . The best way to reduce fear and build confidence is by taking action ( take action ) . Once we do that , we will begin to accumulate experience and knowledge . Everything is difficult at the moment to do it the first time . It’s like jumping off a cliff into the lake . Once we did it once , we will see that the water is safe and every time we try it again everything will run more easily . Therefore take action . Start with small steps while building self-confidence to overcome fear of failure can be at their best.
7 . Burning boat . This is an ancient Greek proverb . When the Greek army across the sea to fight , the first thing they did after landing was to burn their own boats . This way there is no way to return home . The only way is to go to war with a desperate attempt . So even when the pursuit of what we want . With no other alternatives we would desperately pursuing the opportunities that exist .
Let overcome fear , success has been waiting for . Fear happens just because we underestimate our own ability .
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Valentino Dinsi, DKK 2004 “jangan mau seumur hidup jadi orang gajian ” LETs Go Indonesia : Jakarta
Risk Management and Daring to be Fail 
